The Labradoodle is the Perfect Dog for non Dog People

Not too long after I married my husband, a bonafide dog lover, his dog, whom he often referred to as his ‘other woman’ passed away. He was simply heartbroken. I, however, didn’t really consider myself a dog person. They seemed to shed all the time, barked, yapped and generally made more work for me than I was really prepared for. Still, he seemed so sad so I relented.

I started looking around for a breed of dog that would meet our needs. I wanted a friendly, larger dog that was known as a ‘low-shedder’ and I found the perfect solution in the Labradoodle.

My hubby was, at first, skeptical. He couldn’t imagine that a dog with a name like Labradoodle was anything other than a ‘girly’ dog. I convinced him to visit a local breeder and he changed his mind. We settle on a ‘standard’ male labradoodle whom we named Caliber. He fit the bill perfectly. Because my husband insisted on a larger dog, the male labradoodle was perfect. As full-grown adults, standard labradoodles average between 55 and 75 pounds and can reach heights of 26 inches. Caliber’s size was just right.

Labradoodle Temperament

We soon learned his temperament was perfect as well. Labradoodles are known for their innate intelligence and my husband found that Caliber was easily trained. In no time at all they had a large repertoire of ‘tricks’ – Caliber even ‘dances’ with him. Our Labradoodle is by far the most even-tempered dog I have ever come across.

Labradoodle Grooming

Even better, Labradoodles are known to have little to no shedding throughout the course of the year. No ‘dog bunnies’ for me to clean up! Caliber’s coat has been easy to groom. The somewhat curly nature of his fur is attractive and we have managed to get by with only two trips to the groomers each year. Our breeder also explained that the Labradoodle is one of the best breeds for anyone concerned about mild allergies. This may be due to their lack of shedding. My mother-in-law is mildly allergic to pet dander and hasn’t had any trouble with Caliber.

My husband and I have both been ‘sold’ on the Labradoodle. Our local breeder has told us that many dogs of this breed are used as guide or therapy dogs because of their even temperament. We specifically asked about Labradoodles and children, as we are hoping to start a family soon. Our breeder explained that while each dog is different, the Labradoodle breed is one of the best breeds for families with children because of their temperament.

While no dog could ever replace the one my husband lost, our Labradoodle Caliber has come close. He and my husband are now good companions. Instead of having ‘another woman’ to hang out with, my husband now jokes that he and Caliber need ‘guy time.’ I would suggest this breed to anyone looking for a larger dog with an even temperament or to someone suffering from mild dog allergies that still wants to enjoy a dog. As for me, I think I have finally become a dog lover and am considering getting a miniature labradoodle for my own.

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How to Clean and Neutralize Pet Urine Stains

This is not just helpful for labradoodle owners, but for everyone if you keep indoor pets or have had to bring your outdoor pets indoors for any reason, you have probably encountered an issue with pet urine on your carpet before. Pet urine can stain your carpet and leave behind an unpleasant odor that, over time, can penetrate through your entire house. It is important that you take the time to clean and neutralize any urine stains you find within your home.

Reasons to Properly Clean Up Urine

• Fresh urine will rarely have a strong odor. Within a few days, however, bacteria will begin the process of breaking down the urea within your pet’s urine. This process gives off a strong, unpleasant odor.
• In addition, other pets will see the urine stain as an animal’s attempt to mark its territory – even if the animal urinated out of excitement or because it could not wait to be let out of the house. It is instinctual for animals to cover up the smell of another animal’s urine by urinating in the same spot themselves. Thus, your failure to properly clean and neutralize pet urine on your carpet could easily result in repeated incidents.
• Damage to your carpet is another factor you must take into consideration when dealing with pet urine. The alkalinity of urine is very high. This can cause discoloration to your carpet. The darker your carpeting is, the higher the risk of noticeable discoloration due to pet urine.
• And lets not forget about diseases and nasties the pet urine is harboring!

Cleaning and Sanitizing Your Carpet

As soon as you notice that your pet has had an accident, begin the task of blotting up as much of the urine as you can. Your goal at this point is merely to make sure that as little urine as possible leaks through to the carpet padding beneath. Get several washcloths or paper towels for this job.

Once you have blotted up the excess pet urine, saturate the stain with club soda. Not only does club soda serve to dilute the remaining urine within your carpet, it naturally neutralizes the odor. If you do not have any club soda handy, you may use water. The important thing is that the urine gets diluted. Once again, blot the liquid up with several dry washcloths or towels. Do not use the washcloths or towels that you used to clean up the initial stain. If you do so, you risk reintroducing urine into the carpeting.

Pour baking soda over the soiled area after you have soaked up as much moisture as possible. The baking soda will help neutralize the odor and absorb residual urine from your carpet. Vacuum up the baking soda after an hour. Make sure to keep other pets away from the soiled area until it dries completely and you are satisfied that the smell is gone.

Although household products are usually sufficient for cleaning pet messes, in some cases you may need extra help. Multiple brands of pet urine neutralizer exist on the market to help you not only further sanitize your carpet, but neutralize the smell of pet urine. If you do not discover the urine stain until it has already seeped through your carpeting, these products may be necessary in helping you to clean up the mess and avoid future odor.

Remember, especially you puppy owners, BE PATIENT with your puppy/dog!!!!!

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Labradoodle Service Dogs – An Inspiring Story

Using labradoodles as service dogs is not a new idea, but I have definitely seen more interest in using them as such in recent years. I have seen some of the breeders here on this site convert their breeder business into labradoodle service dog businesses. I have seen TV reports about them and even saw this recent article about them.

The article talks about a labradoodle that will be given to a little boy named “Dante”. His family was given a check for over $4000 towards a labradoodle service dog by the Niagara Falls Lions Club and Knights of Columbus. Dante is six and is autistic, the new service dog will help Dante a great deal of things, especially his seizures. Autism service dogs are trained to keep children still, and stand on him/her if necessary. When they sense a seizure coming on, they will sit down to catch the parents’ attention. They will also calm a child down by diverting their attention from their surroundings

I personally think this is great. Labradoodles are a highly intelligent and a quick learning dog breed. The labradoodle breed was actually origionally conceived to be a service dog.

I will soon a new section talking about Labradoodles as Service Dogs.

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Famous Labradoodle Owners

Even though Barack Obama didn’t end up getting a Labradoodle for his family, there are plenty of other famous Labradoodle owners out there, below you will find some of the celebrities that own Labradoodles. As we are made aware of more famous Labradoodle owners, we will update the list as necessary.

• Jennifer Aniston – owns a Labradoodle, bought for her by Brad Pitt, her former husband.
• David Baldacci – Famous legal thriller author owns a Labradoodle is named Finn.
• Lance Bass – Singer, (formerley of the boyband N’Sync) has a black Labradoodle.
• Joe Biden – Current US Vice President, owns a Labradoodle named Brother.
• Billy Bragg – Political folk/rocker owns a Labradoodle.
• Christie Brinkley – owns a Labradoodle named Maple Sugar.
• Dustin Brown – Professional basketball player owns Milo, a Chocolate Labradoodle.
• Sir Donald Campbell – Sir Campbell broke land speed records in the 1950s, was one of the first Labradoodle owners.
• Jeremy Clarkson – Top Gear presenter has a Labradoodle named Dodger.
• Barbara Eden – The former actress has a Labradoodle named Djinn Djinn (named after her invisible dog in the TV show I Dream of Jeannie).
• Carolyn B. Ellis – The writer and her three children own a Labradoodle.
• Mark Gearan – Hobart and William Smith Colleges President has a Labradoodle named Dublin.
• Tom Griswold – of The Bob and Tom Show in Indiana has a Labradoodle named Tazzie.
• Richard Hammond – Top Gear Presenter owns a Labradoodle called TG (often referred to as “Top Gear Dog”) which occasionally appears on the BBC show.
• Lynn Hoffman – Author and activist has a Labradoodle named Lola.
• Jeremy Irons – Actor, has two black Labradoodles.
• Pam Krueger – PBS Television investment program MoneyTrack producer has a Labradoodle named Chloe, who sometimes appears on the show as an “unofficial co-host”.
• Rory McIlroy – Irish Golfer, winner of the 2009 Dubai Desert Classic has a Labradoodle named Theo.
• Graham Norton – Actor and TV presenter has a Labradoodle named Bailey.
• Hugh Panaro – Actor/singer has a Labradoodle named Soot.
• Courtney Peldon and Ashley Peldon – Actresses and sisters have two Labradoodles named Odysseus and Calypso.
• Oliver Platt – Actor, owns a labradoodle named  Noodle.
• Rodman Primack – Chairman of the London auction house Phillips de Pury & Company, has a chocolate Labradoodle named Theo.
• Garth Stein – Author, owns a Labradoodle.
• Andrew Taylor – The Middlesbrough F.C. (UK) player has a Labradoodle named Sonny.
• Susan Rebecca White – Novelist, has a Labradoodle named Raney.
• Henry Winkler – has a Labradoodle named Charlotte.
• Tiger Woods – The famous golfer has two Labradoodles named Yogi and Riley.
• Neil Young – The singer/songwriter has a Doodle named Carl.

If you know of other famous Labradoodle owners, please post a reply below and we will update our list.

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The New Labradoodle Dogs Website

As of July 9th 2009, Labradoodle-Dogs.net is under new ownership. Since that time we have made signifigant updates to the website including a whole new website redesign! We hope that everyone likes the new look and we feel the new website will provide a better overall experience for both labradoodle enthusiasts, labradoodle owners, and labradoodle breeders.

Labradoodle-Dogs.net is the #1 destination for labradoodle information on the Internet. We not only provide the most in-depth info about labradoodle but the largest directory of labradoodle breeders as well.

We plan on investing heavily in new features and upgrades to the website in coming months that will make labradoodle-dogs.net an even more informative destination for labradoodle seekers.

Thanks for helping to me Labradoodle-Dogs.net the #1 labradoodle site on the Internet.

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Pooper scooper… the real scoop on poop !

So what’s the scoop? This article is not for the squeamish as it’s really about being a expert Pooper Scooper as a second career in life when you own one or more dogs. Little did I realize back in the fall of October 2006 that I would once again be getting much more poop to deal with, but this time it wasn’t coming from my kids, family, friends or work. NOPE, my own dogs would give more poop than carter had pills.

Now those who own dogs realize how easily when amongst others the conversation can turn to poop without a moment’s notice. We discuss the perfect poop almost wanting to frame a picture of it—jokingly with a hint of seriousness that does confuse non-dog possessing people.

So what does it take to be the Grand Poohbah of pooping scooping? Not much besides a sense of humor, strong stomach, gloved hands, STRONG plastic bags doubled up, old shoes or boots, and beyond that a sense of responsibility to keeping your yard from looking like a land mine practice field.

Now from the past 2.5 years of experience I have had my fair share of poop, feeling quite confident that I am no longer an apprentice pooper scooper. In fact I will proudly state that I am officially almost an expert as of present day and will proceed to share my expertise in what poop should look like, when the best time of year, day and season is to being a great speedy and efficient pooper scooper. Note: after reading this article you may end up wanting to be the official POOPER SCOOPER of your canine household along with having a “Grand Ole Time” perfecting your skills while laughing out loud outside. Your neighbors will perhaps think you’ve lost it but we know the truth, so don’t worry about a thing.

When is the best time of year? Why it’s late winter of course. Sorry for you that live in warmer climates where there is no snowfall however the types of poops, how to get it up without getting it on you just may be amusing and of use to you as well. So while I try not to exclude anyone, take what you want and discard the rest. Please don’t give me any poop as I do get enough on a daily basis. Now back to the best time of year.

Late winter is great as you have temporary thaws and/or days where the sun will shine and slightly defrost the “poopsicles” that decorate your yard. NOW for some of us, pooper scooping is done 1 to 2 times a month during winter as snow cover and ice can make it difficult to perform and perfect your job of being a dutiful pooper scooper which brings me to the best time of day: late morning on a sunny day if possible. Oh wait, Sunday mornings are also optimal as you will most likely be in a relaxed happy mood further aiding your motivation.

Remember though that if it’s sunny and around 10:30am to 11:00 am the poop on the north side will be more frozen than the east and south side. The west side poopsicles may be the same consistency of the north side. I know you all appreciate this helpful hint. NOW preparing for your job:

1. Mind prep: you are getting fresh air, vitamin D from the sun, EXERCISE and I guarantee if you follow my advice you will end up having a good laugh even if you have a bad back.
2. What to wear: steel tipped or hard toed shoes or boots, old leather gloves with cashmere or thinsulate lining. For those that can handle cold temps go right ahead and wear those rubber gloves. Next, ski pants or thermal underwear as you will be out there for at least on hour or more. Please wear a hat as you do lost most of your warmth via your head and forget the cup of coffee, have that BEFORE you go out so you’re wide awake and don’t stumble into a pile of softened poop on the south side. I will assume you will put on an old warm winter coat and leave your camera INSIDE the house. Why? Because we need a good imagination for this type of work and your hands to be free to perform a wonderful gratifying and fun job in life when you have dogs.
3. Last but not least: Do this alone as others will only distract you thereby making you miss a poopsicle or two and/or disrupting a peaceful time spent alone enjoying the serenity of the day and further aiding your concentration to the task at hand.
4. All those little plastic bags you bring your groceries home in ? These are great to use and you can double bag them before going out and then put them into one large kitchen garbage bag. Once outside tie the large bag holding he smaller double bagged plastic bags to a railing, or onto something they won’t blow off of and cause you to run down the street across neighbors’ yards looking like a complete fool giving them something to further aid their notion that you’re a nut.
5. Shame shame on you IF you’re one of those that have a pooper scooper service you PAY to do this job.

Okay by now you should have the right frame of mind and be quite prepared. Let’s proceed outside where the real fun begins!!!

Which sides (aka sunny exposure) of the yard does one begin a pooper scooper task? The EAST of course but you must remember that you have to work fast and also decide which poopicles aren’t worth the effort and move forward. While I could be charging for this information I wont’ and this is all for FREE. NOTE: those with a bad back you can always use tiger balm once back inside or whatever you do to alleviate back aches but drinking before noon is a no-no thus not listed as an aid.

The north side does blend somewhat into the east side and this is where you will begin. Notice how quiet it is outside with the sun shining brightly allowing you to see partially uncovered poopsicles. A sense of humor will slowly occur while you see all diverse kinds of poopsicles and the hunt for the perfect poop will enter your thoughts. Wow, so much poop! Go ahead let out a big sigh and look around to make sure neighbors aren’t watching you as this should be a private relaxing time.

As you start to pick up poopsicles you will now realize some are stuck solidly to the ground with a small piece breaking off. Do not be alarmed this is totally normal and means you have to move a tad more over the EAST side of your yard. Initially you will be able to easily pick up the slightly thawed poopsicles with much ease barely leaving a trace behind with it landing into the bag on your arm quite nicely. You will also feel quite proud of yourself but don’t get over confident quite yet as you will be challenged soon. Remember I am here to help.

All of a sudden there is some poop you see that you missed on the EAST side but it seems to be stubborn. You will turn and try twisting it and still this poopsicle persists in staying on the ground. Next you find a stick and poke it realizing complete failure to obtain another poopsicle. Finally you will try to kick it and OUCH that hurt! Oh wouldn’t that be a great one to explain to the ER doctor on how you broke your toe! This is why I stated earlier to wear steel tipped or hard toed footwear. Eventually, the coffee you had earlier and the pain you just felt will enable your brain cells to think properly: move on the next poopsicle as this one isn’t worth the trouble. Keep in mind you must work quickly as it’s cold outside and if you don’t the south side poopsicles will be mushy and full of scientific wonders (to be explained shortly).

You are now on your way to becoming an intermediate pooper scooper. Believe me these are tried and truthful methods I have perfected over the past 2.5 years and kept a secret till now. So while I am baring my soulful pooper scooper ways to be kind, helpful and save you much misery and/or some poop getting on your hands, bear in mind that this is factual with a sense of humor.  Life and dogs present much poop on a daily basis thus laughing is a great stress reducer.

Back to poopsicles. Notice the missing pair of socks? NO? Oh you will once you get to the south side of yard where the real fun begins especially if it is approaching 11:20am or later. That beautiful sunshine has now allowed you to see all the colors of the rainbow and missing items in your house. Okay some you didn’t realize were missing till now. Then before you know it, your mind wanders and these poopsicle piles are of varying consistencies which are NOT due to the thawing process either.

Yes folks, there is the diverse poops that now can be coined/labeled into categories such as:

1. The Dirt Bomb Poop: a dry poop that almost blows into the wind as it consists of the dirt from your dog surfing your houseplants and somehow managed to digest more dirt than food. Don’t ask this is one of the wonders of the world not stated in books.
2. The Sandy Grainy Poop: I have NO clue for this type of poop as i do not have sand in my house or in my yard and have given up trying to solve this mystery poop. I’d rather laugh! Oh wait, if you fed your dog rice previously this might be one explanation. Additionally, upon seeing this one might get alarmed your dog has worms or some other parasite. Relax you’d see it in the other poop in your yard.
3. The Paper Snake Poop: One of my favorites! Easy to pick up and relief is felt that it isn’t a tape worm or your panties. This is all the paper napkins your dog ate when you weren’t looking. Buy some stock in bounty if you want to replace the money you spend on napkins and move on if life. Dogs eat many things, paper napkins are a delicacy they truly enjoy.
4. The Brightly Colored Almost Psychedelic Poop: Aha! The missing pieces of a beheaded duck, rubber ball, or other toys you buy for your dog well you just found out how much the like that toy!
5. The Hard Solid Poop with the Soft Center: What this means is you aren’t working fast enough and may end up with poop getting on your gloves. So come on, work a bit faster.
6. The Pudding Poop: This is where I draw the line and let nature take over as decomposition will hopefully happen by or before springtime. Walk away from this one and realize if you dog is healthy now at one time they weren’t. This is not a time for analyzation, rather leave it alone as the south side of your yard is really warming things up.
7. The WHAT THE…POOP: These are always so much fun that you really do have to stop and get a closer look praying it will not smell foul as  you really are too curious to realize you are now getting into poop too deeply. This one is where you see something unrecognizable and usually end up getting a stick to try to identify this alien type of poop. Seriously, this is puzzling you with concerned thoughts till you reach success. Ohhhhhh, there’s the other part of my panties I didn’t find when my dog was eating them the other night. Or I need to talk to my teenage son about closing his door as dirty socks are too delicious for my dogs to refuse as a after dinner snack. Possibly it could be part of the squeaker and ducks foot they dismembered recently. Whatever, you will NOT leave nor stop poking and prodding this type of poop till you figure out exactly what it is! Why? Well for starters you will keep wondering about it and discussing it with family members later who will think you’re nuts. You might even ask them to come outside to take a look and help you identify it. Lastly, you will worry for a bit and also realize you have spent way too much time on one single poop. Like I said earlier, work quickly and you can always save this type of poop for last.
8. THE PERFECT POOP: Does it exist? YES! And once you discover it you are ready to do a happy dance and almost run back inside the house to take a picture of it!
9. The Tootsie Roll Poop: refer back to #8
10. The WHITE POOP ?!?! Yes this considered by some to be one of the most gratifying and near-perfect poops. It has decomposed properly, has no odor and will literally disintegrate within a fairly short period of time. Also refer back to #8.

By now you’ve probably filled at least 2 or 3 bags up and set them aside neatly tied with double knots as well as the east and south side of your yard is much more walk worthy and worry free. No more dodging or weaving…you can walk a straight path now, congrats! Wait, the west side, hmm perhaps which can be done next week? As the north side needs some tidying up. Trudge back over only to realize the sun isn’t shining and those frozen poops can stay put! If you’re a very responsible person you will trudge back over the west side again and pick up a few more poopsicles finally thinking, “Enough of this poop! I’m done for now!” (If you’re like me that is).

I will admit I usually have More than 2 bags filled up but will not admit to exact number of bags. Why should I as it would spoil the fun and then you would know HOW responsible I really am.  If you are smart though, you will have NOT filled up any bags too full so they break open when you place them in the large kitchen bag. Besides once you place all the filled bags of poopsicles into one bag, who’s going to lift it and place it the garbage? Okay, I’ll admit this: I could care less HOW HEAVY the final bag filled with poop is! Why? Because my job is done as I can get my other half or teenage son to pick it up and put it in the garbage can. If the bag is really heavy it also gives me HOPE that other family members will realize the work I do. If they don’t then I have the satisfaction of hearing them complain how heavy the bag was and how they hated throwing it in the garbage can.

I just had a thought: I always pray the bag doesn’t rip open on garbage day with the garbage company banning me from disposing of my dogs poop again! Thus I use hefty reinforced kitchen garbage bags. Oh don’t forget to TIP the garbage man nicely during the holidays as they don’t give you any poop about what is and isn’t allowed as “garbage”.

I don’t know about you but I’ve had enough poop, don’t want to discuss anymore poop, nor am I going to take any poop (to the garbage) —It’s not Sunday, it’s Saturday! Besides my dogs need to go out for a walk now.

Remember: no matter how much poop you receive, there is always two ways of looking at it: with a sense of humor or without. It’s your choice to take poop and laugh it off. Or to walk away from it and let it build up.

Have a poop free day; enjoy life and all your dogs have to give to you!  : )

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ALL I NEEDED TO KNOW IN LIFE…I’m relearning from my dogs?!?

 
Ok we many have heard of “all I ever needed to know I learned in kindergarten”. As much as I may agree with that statement I am not in 100% agreement. ALL I needed to learn was STARTED as the ground rules of life that began in kindergarten. Marriage and Kids refreshed the same need, but right now I am in the middle of a refresher course from my dogs. YES you read that correctly and no I am not crazy nor have I “gone to the dogs”. Rather I am quite happy I have dogs that teach me as much as I try to teach them. Daily my dogs prove I am not a know-it-all and need to learn more.

1. IF you drop it, pick it up or a DOODLE will steal, swallow or give chase with it. Dogs remind us to practice daily cleanliness habits. Kids and spouse help out in this area as well. Practice what you preach is the rule of thumb especially with dogs. Flip side, while a teenager leaves a wet towel on the floor, a spouse may walk over it, your dog will not let it go unnoticed and alert you to this fact.

2. Do not yell……a dog’s hearing is approx 8 times (or more) more acute than a human’s. YOUR DOG heard you the 1st time, but chose not to listen. Ever have dog run away from you? Since they’re canines we can’t say they’re just human but like humans who listens 100% of the time? Ever see a dog run away from someone angrily calling them to come back? I’d say that is one smart dog and maybe heard the expression “run for the hills”. A dog in some ways has needs like a human: kindness, forgiveness, and much more. I have heard of spouses completely ignoring their “other half’s” every word (some on a daily basis too). Or how about kids who choose to ignore or possibly forget rules and do as they please, yet we expect a dog to be perfect? Heck, how many times did we teach our dog to come when called and sometimes give them tons of praise along with a food treat? A dog will make mistakes and so do humans. Thus, I needed to learn this is a fact of life but yelling doesn’t solve it. Creative thinking, problem solving, communication and guidance skills are necessary for optimal results. Add in a sense of humor as it does help get through a “rough” day.

3. Patience and training are part of an essential daily diet of love. Kids and dogs don’t raise themselves. WE all forget things and need reminders, we all need 2nd chances. If a child needs to be told something 4000 times before it is committed to short term memory, why not give a dog the same chance? I know, a dog remembers to sit, stay, heel, lie down, fetch, but cannot remember to leave your socks alone or not be tempted to eat a pork tenderloin cooling off on your kitchen counter unattended. How many of you have woken up to see the last bit of cheesecake, leftovers and other good edibles gone without admission of the guilty party? Possibly ”guilty till proven innocent” has some merit with dogs? Dogs are not kids, they are animals and animals are food scavengers as well as domesticated animals that need direction via training. No training = no rules and they then will follow instinctual direction.

4. Unconditional love: own a doodle or any dog for that matter, and you will experience it, as words alone cannot describe it fully. Ever try leaving a room for 5 seconds, 5 minutes or leave for 5 hours and see how they greet you each and every time. They aren’t moody, nor hold a grudge, want to demand to know why you are late coming home, or tell you that they don’t like how you’re acting. No, a dog is eager to share his love with you every chance they get regardless of your mood. A dog eagerly awaits to greet you lavishing you with tail wags faster than a propeller, kisses wetter than a kitchen sponge and some even try to rest their head on your lap giving the soulful ” I love YOU” look and patiently wait for your loving touch and voice.

5. We have friends, family, outings, work, etc…your dog only has you for their companionship. So if you dog is acting up, like a little kid, could it be that they may be just trying to get your attention for a little while? One friend of mine has a dog that when she is on the phone will take off all the magnets on her refrigerator bringing each one to her separately, any other time all magnets stay intact. Maybe actions do speak louder than words or a big bark or soft long sigh.

6. Walking a dog for potty time isn’t just that…it can enable you both some time to relax, unwind, stop and smell the roses (if there’s any around but watch out for thorns), get some good old fashioned exercise, fresh air and a chance to bond. I really do not like cold winter arctic weather aka temperatures below 40 degrees F but each and every time I go out with my dogs I appreciate the serenity of fresh fallen snow resting not only on the ground but also on the trees painting a whole new landscape waiting for my dogs and I to enjoy and leave our fun filled footprints. Ok, if you’re wearing ski gear, warm boots, gloves, scarf and a hat and no one is looking then you can do a snow angel reliving your childhood for a few moments while your dogs come bouncing along to give you kisses and/or join you in the fun. So while I dread the coldness of winter, my dogs teach me the beauty, peacefulness and fun one can have if you just let your hair down forgetting reality and appreciate each season. If you view it through a dog’s eyes you think more simplistic letting go of the day’s worries and end up laughing how a dog catches snowflakes, bounces like a bunny, and so much more. They’re almost like being with a toddler that only knows how to live in the moment.

7. Talking to you dog is not silly! A dog reads body language and can size you up faster than you can say “Jack Robinson” and knows by the tone of your voice if you’re happy, upset, angry, or want to play. Dogs can’t talk human language but they need to hear human voices. I know many people who talk to themselves saying it helps them stay organized. So why not talk to a dog that will give you head tilts, quizzical looks and let you ramble on as much as you want without a complaint or an objection.

8. Hugging and kissing a dog…dogs and humans need touch. Some trainers will say dogs do not like to be hugged. I beg to differ. Maybe mine like hugs because I used it as a way of praise and love since they were small puppies. Or maybe they like sensing that love that radiates from a sincere loving hugs. I am not going to analyze a hug; instead I’d suggest just giving it a try sometime.

9. A Sense of Humor…without one, life is miserable. No further explanation needed. And I do believe it has been stated laughter is good medicine for the soul.

10. Will your dog ever make you angry, frustrated, cry, and want to scream and/or wonder why you even got a dog in the first place? Is the pope Catholic? Have you ever experienced the same exact feelings with your children, spouse, siblings and/or parents? Think about it, what in life comes easy and without some effort? AND if it did, would you appreciate and love it as much? OR do we learn by our mistakes, by trial and error and by the teachings of our parents, schooling, and life? If you want an easy “perfect life” do not have kids, dogs, or a spouse. Oh, don’t own a home either as all of require work. Instead please win the lotto jackpot, buy an island in the south pacific and hire people to do all the work leaving you to enjoy another day in paradise.

11. If at first you don’t succeed, try try again or get some help! A dog only lives 10 to 15 years on the average. What a short time to learn as many say a dog is mature by 2 to 3 years old. How long did it take you to learn and mature? And if you have kids, are they fully mature at 18 years old?

If you are unable to train your dog according to your liking there are obedience classes for YOU and YOUR dog to learn together. I know I’ve been to them with both my dogs. Why repeat a class you just did with one dog? Because you can still learn more and as everyone is a unique individual so is you dog. Besides, it gets you out of house, makes you think twice, sometimes the dog is doing things right and you aren’t, so your dog is now confused. Lastly, I can guarantee there will much laughter during 8 weeks of obedience training classes. Lastly, it’s cheaper than a gym membership as you will come home exhausted but with a determination to work harder and learn more [with your dog]. You might even figure out teenagers are harder than training a dog. I know of marriages that after 20 years they say their spouse still is an overgrown kid.

12. I am what is called an adult in “middle age” approaching the hill. How do I know this? There are so many charts, polls and little boxes to check with age groups. I have gray hair that I manage to conceal 90% of the time, wrinkles edging their way slowly on my face and lastly, my birth certificate confirms my exact age. I am supposed to be the teacher of life as I’ve gone through much schooling from kindergarten to college, raised children, married with in-laws, divorced, and thus been through 40+ years of experience of life. And no I am not telling you my real age as it isn’t necessary. So with all I have learned to date?

I have learned something else: dogs will teach you more than you can imagine. I thought I earned my stripes and can honestly play the role of a teacher. Silly me, I complicated things by having 2 doodle dogs. I am a student once again having basic principles of what I need to learn in life being reinforced on top of being both a teacher and student of life once again. For those of you not good at multitasking, don’t’ worry with practice you get better.

13. The little things in life really are big. They sure are! Ever home alone, long day at work, kids are off and about, spouse may be working overtime or out with friends or family? It’s just you and your dog(s), all you hear is the tick tock of a clock while sitting down to relax not wanting anyone or anything to bother you. Then something happens you try to ignore, your dog nudges with their nose and maybe you say, “no not now” or you push their nose lightly away. Something inside you makes you look at your dog only to see a pair of eyes soulfully staring you filled only with sincere love. Your heart melts; you smile and lean down to hug your dog now seeing their tail wagging faster than a helicopter blade. That one quiet moment of taking a mere second that has a memory of lasting a lifetime. So small in some people’s eyes but so big in other’s hearts. The tiniest gesture of caring, taking a moment with a dog that is offering you their attention to help you relax from your day, something money never can buy. What some may call “Zen moment”. Total serenity without a real thought just an awesome feeling.

14. Time flies when you’re having fun. While I may go through stages of my dogs stealing a sock, swallowing a dishtowel, shredding my tax bill, barking at the wind blowing, I also go through stages where I learn that my dog is teaching me life goes by quickly so why not try to enjoy it with love, patience, understanding and we both need more training to learn and grow. My dogs also teach me to use this with my own family as well. One day they’re puppies and before you realize it, they’re full grown almost mature dogs listening much better than previously making you almost wish that puppyhood were still existent. Don’t worry they will when you least expect it and then you wish will for them to behave. This is where you are supposed to laugh realizing no one is infallible which makes life much more interesting and valuable.

Enjoy your day, I have to go as my dogs are waiting for me to take them out and possibly learn a bit more about them and myself.

 

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Designer Dog? Hybrid? Mutt? OR are Doodles the Best Kept Secret in Town?

Doodles, what are they? For hearsay, I am talking about just a Labradoodle and Goldendoodle though to-date there are numerous poodle mixes being coined as “Designer Dogs” in news articles, magazines, by pedigree breeders, and other organizations with set standard rules on form, structure, temperament, size, weight and more.

So why does the term Designer Dog ruffle a few feathers or at times denote a negative image? If you haven’t tried it, don’t knock it, walk a mile in my shoes [with a doodle on the other end of a leash], or possibly do some research. Lastly, read articles, such as mine, and see why a Doodle was originally created and how they go beyond original expectations of the first breeding back in 1988.

So why was a Doodle originally created? Simply put, to be a service dog for those that are allergy sufferers that need a dog with excellent temperament, friendliness, high intelligence, no shedding to very low shedding coat, good health, and even more. Thus comes the mixing of excellent breeds of dogs that have to-date shown good results with doing guide, service and therapy work to helping others out. With mixing a Standard Poodle with either breed, Labrador Retriever or Golden Retriever, a tendency of having a allergy friendly coat and high trainability for service work the Labradoodle and Goldendoodle began its new career to working towards helping those in need. Additionally, the ultimate result also revealed a great family dog good with children and other pets in a household. The term HYBRID VIGOR meant that in many cases the crossing of two different breeds could result in getting the best genetic mixture for a healthy dog as well.

According to canine history, in reality there is no domestic dog today that is 100% purebred. I see a few eyebrows rising and some head tilts along with a “what!” look in the crowd. Now before anyone forms any prejudices let us step back a moment and think about how many breeds came to be in present day. Could it be the infusion of breeding several types of breeds to obtain one breed of dog? YES. But my job is not to argue this point nor be a professor giving a lecture, rather my job is to tell you that my Doodles were designed just for me , they act like Mutt and Jeff at times and really are one of the best kept secrets in town. After fostering dogs for over 30 years, Doodles really are a godsend especially for those with allergies such as me and my family. And might I add one of the best dogs ever to enter my life! Okay, let’s get down to real facts: what the big secret about Doodles?

1. You have to have one living in your house to totally realize the secret. So those of you without a Doodle in your life, I am not going to easily share this secret. Instead keep reading to see if this is one time a secret isn’t meant to be kept private yet to be shared with one and all.

2. I’d love to give you my definition of what a Doodle really is and not in a technical canine Webster dictionary style sense. Okay, Doodle is an abbreviated nickname for Labradoodles and Goldendoodles. Moving right along, the next thing to portray is that a Doodle is just that. A what? Yes a Doodle! When considering what we do when we doodle, such as scribbling a drawing on a piece of paper while thinking at work, at a seminar or talking on the phone, aren’t we using our creative side? Okay there is intelligence behind a doodle as well, as some type of thought goes into a designed doodle on a piece of paper. At that moment aren’t we trying to relax too? To this day I remember the Spyrograph where doodle drawings were made with enthusiasm by kids of all ages, sometimes adults got into the act. So normally when one thinks of the word “doodle” it conveys a happy, silly, maybe even goofy yet creative moment that later can evoke laughter or a an appreciation of a spontaneous creation and possibly just being yourself. Getting back to a “Doodle” in the canine sense.

3. A Doodle has a beautiful, sweet temperament, with many creative and comical antics along with great intelligence. These Doodle dogs do go through many stages as any other breed of dog, however with a bit of twist to it at times. What do I mean by this? Well, if you keep reading I will reveal to you what I and others that have these Doodle dogs really are a hybrid of laughter, love, and much more. Doodles originally designed aka bred to create a wonderful guide/service/and/or therapy dog back in 1988 that somehow got noticed as being also a great family pet and companion in life.

4. My Doodles do guide me to their food bowl when hungry, or to their water dish when empty. They provide me with excellent butler service: announcing the arrival of visitors at our door by loudly barking, lick up all crumbs under the dining room table better than any vacuum I’ve had to-date, will eagerly clean plates when asked, pick up any clothes especially socks lying on the floor. However I have yet to teach them how to push the buttons to activat
e the dishwasher, serve me afternoon tea, or ring a bell when dinner is ready. The therapy I obtain from my doodles is better than lying on a couch and talking to some therapist for $80 or more an hour. Rather, I talk to my doodles daily for FREE; they listen intently, and afterwards give lots of kisses. They also provide unconditional love 24/7 unless they are asleep, snoring louder than my dear fiancé, Dave.

5. Doodles have an unbelievable nimble agility to their movements when running, jumping, and even wrestling with each other. At times they can easily jump over our legs resting on a coffee table; sail through the air sideways at eye level yet when watching something of this nature their movements can be as graceful as a ballerina. Yet I have to admit while their paws barely touch the ground as if there were layer of air supporting them as they glide and prance about the house, there are times that surprise you with sounds of teeth clicking wars. Getting a picture of this in motion makes them almost look ferocious as a lion on a food hunt. But to this day, my doodles have yet to break or knock anything over other than pull out an electrical cord that manages to get in their way. Simply put, it’s almost like these doodles study the layout of your home, have a mental blueprint image in their head and can run faster than a speeding bullet missing all breakables, jumping over chairs with ease and elegance, but come to a swift, silent screeching halt if food is being prepared in the kitchen.

6. Training a doodle is done with positive reinforcement, a soft voice with gentle correction, much praise and very few treats. I tried treat training my doodles when little puppies at potty time outside. That ended on the first day when Max faked pooping and peeing just to get a treat. Back to basics to training Max with love, praise, hugs and acting like I had a winning Lotto ticket when he did “business” outside. Peanut, my other doodle, took a bit longer as she knows how to do something but would rather find just the right spot which can take numerous paces, sniffs, and about 15 minutes or more at times. Regardless, they train easily if given enough attention and love.

7. Doodles love having a task to do and learning ‘words’ or sentences. Maybe it’s a game to us but to them it is serious business to be devoured like a great mouth watering Thanksgiving dinner. They sometimes as puppies start out as the class clown in obedience training yet seem to rise to the head of the class after they’re done socializing and pushing your buttons. As they mature, Doodles have a way of sensing depression/sadness, illness, stress, injury and will lie faithfully by your side offering both their companionship and assistance when possible. How so? Maybe I should say SOME Doodles are like this but for me I have witnessed our Max assist my daughter when she had knee surgery and offer support by leaning into her good leg and waiting for her to rest her hand on Max’s back for support. I have also seen Max run and break my fall once when I was running a high fever and was very unsteady. I was falling face first into the coffee table but somehow Max managed to have me fall on top of him instead. Maybe to some these are silly examples, but for me and others that have Doodles we have all at one time or another seen and felt their instinctual caring helping and loving ways in times of need.

8. I may joke around much about Doodles comical antics yet there is intelligence behind their attention getting ways. Or as some say, “a method to their madness”. Peanut, a goldendoodle in reality, is now called our Golden Pocket Theiver. My son has more homework eaten and been corrected for leaving his homework out where a doodle can find it. But my son didn’t leave his homework out! His homework was safe and sound or so we thought till we discovered Peanut unzipping his book bag and politely teasing out papers that just happened to be a 3 day project he just completed. This past winter somehow the receipts I need for my taxes were ending up inside the roof of Peanut’s mouth as that is the first place we now check when she wears a Cheshire cat smile. What happened is Dave and I both one night watched in disbelief as Peanut would walk around our dining room table, sniffing each pocket on the coats that we place on our chairs. We were in shock as Peanut, the cute little princess that she is at 55 lbs and 22in tall, every so gently uses those tiny front little teeth to quickly unzip our pockets and in about 2 seconds flat either inhales or licks or teases out a receipt. If caught, she blinks those soulful eyes while picking up one of her toys and feigns complete innocence. In our house the “Black Hole” truly exists as this is where her thievery stash is kept: inside her mouth behind a toy she’s supposed to play with. If you ask me, that takes a certain amount of intelligence and dexterity.

9. I could probably list more than 50 reasons of why Doodles are a hybrid dog designed to be the best kept secret in town. For my family, friends, and myself or should I say anyone who lets any doodle into their homes and heart no longer will try to classify this type of dog and as time goes by is affected less by adamant remarks as to a Doodle is less than other kinds of breeds of dogs presently classified according to strict standards. Most doodle owners are strict about the standard of living their Doodle receives, realizing they are a “people” dog needing to be part of their family. And come to think of it, what dog doesn’t deserve that as well as need it: to be loved as part of the family. So while all opinions and articles will have differing views, my view is that I could not, nor would not turn back the hands of time before I had Doodles. Yes a Doodle, or any dog for that matter, will take up your time, test your ability to laugh when they’re sitting with a $20 bill have eaten in their mouth, perhaps may taste a sock or shoe, need vet visits, feeding schedules and more. Then again what you receive in return money cannot buy: unconditional love from a Doodle that teaches you how to live a fuller life, take time to stop and smell the roses, laugh more often and enjoy those you love. In my case, my Doodles are included as being a part of my family and shared with my closest of friends.

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Doodles LIVE HOW LONG?

 
Technically, many written articles state that Labradoodles and Goldendoodles live on the average about 12-15 years.

I say Labradoodles and Goldendoodles, as I have both types of doodles sitting at my feet this very moment, will ONLY live 15 years with a human family that will exercise a sense of humor on a daily basis! So if you are not feeling very humorous in life, I highly suggest getting a doodle. Believe me; you will discover a possible hidden or lost sense of humor while growing OLD together. For now those of you who think they are or have been called “born comedians”, think again! Doodles are the best stand up comedy act in town, outperforming you many times over and over and over again. Though you may be able to be quite the comedian when at a social event alone, without a doodle that is, retelling what antic your doodle did in the past. Otherwise, doodles take first place and you come in as a close second. If you have multiple doodles, then put it this way: you are last but think of laughter as the best medicine around and your doodles are keeping you very healthy. As they say, “He, who laughs last, has the best laugh”.

So how did someone determine the average age of Doodles? Did they refer to Labrador Retriever, Golden Retriever and Standard Poodle history for their age along with temperament of comedy and love? For now, humor me as we go and look at what they say about the canine genetic mixes in a Doodle.

First a Goldendoodle , in general, is started by breeding a Golden Retriever with a Standard Poodle. The Labradoodle uses a Labrador Retriever bred with a Standard Poodle.

Golden Retrievers are known as a companion dog that is very friendly, eager to please, happy disposition, responds well to training, peaceful towards other animals, seems to be everyone’s friend in the family and while energetic as puppies, they do tend to calm down a bit in adulthood by 2 years of age. However, there is the exception to the rule and some golden retrievers can take up to 3 years to mature.

The LIFE EXPECTANCY OF GOLDEN RETRIEVERS :12 to 15 years.

The Labrador Retriever is known for its easy going, friendly and faithful nature as well as being excellent hunting dogs. This type of dog also responds well to various types of training (guide, service, therapy, rescue, etc), love attention as well as giving it to their family.  

THE LIFE EXPECTANCY OF THE LABRADOR RETRIEVER: 12 to 15 years.

 Now let’s move on to the Standard Poodle. Originally created to be a water/hunting dog, with a no shedding coat, playful and comical personality, very high intelligence, quite agile, possible watch dog in maturity, and easily trains well.

 THE LIFE EXPECTANCY OF STANDARD POODLES: 12 Years.

 According to the general public and articles on the internet and in books now, the average life expectancy of Doodles is anywhere from 12 to 15 years. For hearsay, I am going to state my doodles will live 15 years to make sure I fully develop and experience a healthy sense of humor laughing for years to come.

 Max now a 22 month old jet black scruffy but cute looking Labradoodle was almost the perfect puppy with only a few comical incidents, however around the age of 15 mos old he decided to release the Lab side of himself. Prior to 15 mos old my family and I had seen mostly the Std. Poodle side of him. Max can easily jump 6 ft in the air and do a butt wiggle and 360 softly landing on his feet. This has caused non-doodle dog owners to have their eyes pop out of their heads and stare in disbelief for a few seconds before they pick their chin off the ground as ask, “Does he always do that?” Or I love the sideways flying through the air at eye level of a person I am talking to that Max thinks is boring and he should be noticed immediately. Once again, I act nonchalant and confirm the black blur at approximately 5ft 3 ins high indeed is my agile, nimble, comical, and mischievous doodle Max. At that moment Max still has a lifespan of 15years since laughter erupted and no harm was done.

When Max shredded a 5ft by 7 ft tall Mexican plant down to 2.5ft by 4ft , I quickly hid the shredded evidence in the bottom of the pot and inspected Max’s mouth for further evidence. Next came pushing this canine pruned Mexican plant that blooms only one night every year into the corner. Under stress or was it the feeling of dread when Dave would discover his prized plant was downsized by several years growth, he might possibly freak out? Meaning Max’s life expectancy was no longer 15years, the way my heart was pounding, my mind racing on how to fix this problem in about 3 minutes, well I figured Max was down to 11.3years left to live or less. I’ve always prided myself at the workplace being able to perform well under pressure and greet challenges with enthusiasm. Here was my chance to prove myself as quick thinking Annmarie, savior of Max’s 15 year life span.

 Hmm… quickly analyzing after scooping up all the shredded succulent leaves that were in tiny pieces, I scan the area. “Where can I hide it for now and later dispose of it into the garbage container outside?” Remember, Dave is due to walk by any minute. A light bulb idea goes off and I feel I can save Max’s life. The plant is big and gangly leaning every which way, so why not rearrange the leaves and stems to appear bigger? Yes I have a plan of action. Moving faster than a speeding bullet I collect all the shredded  pieces trying to bury them in the soil of the large pot the plant sits in while pushing Max’s nose out of the way. Next I push the plant a little over to the left, extend the leaves and stems more to the right, and run downstairs with Max to sit at the dining room table behind my computer with Max lying by my feet. My heart is racing still, I am stifling a giggle or two when I realize how foolish I am to try to cover up Max’s curiosity. I should just tell Dave what happened and leave it at that. But this is real life and this is more fun seeing how long it will take Dave to notice and laugh after I tell him what I did to save Max’s life expectancy.

Dave notices about a day later. Whew, am I ever glad men aren’t as observant as us women. End result? Dave laughs so hard when I relate all the details and agrees Max has immunity thus living out his full life with us. Great and I love Dave even more for being understanding and roll my eyes at Max who tries to feign sheer innocence.
Later we have a 2nd Doodle named Peanut who is a Houdini, a devil, a princess, so sweet, and if she could she’d bounce off the walks and walk on the ceiling along with traveling the world happily with anyone who she meets. Friendly and curious with a wee devil is Peanut’s personality.

When Peanut tasted Dave’s steak sub one night on the coffee table , well her life expectancy went down to almost 9.4years but when I pointed out to Dave why in his right mind he would leave the room to get salt while a puppy was sitting at mouth level to his plate, he agreed it was foolish on his part. Besides the look of happiness and a wagging tail with the cuteness of her smile, restored Peanut’s life expectancy back up to 15 years.

 Let’s add in a 3rd Doodle named Beau who is as calm, happy go lucky and as sweet as a puppy can possibly be. On his own accord, he has watched our other 2 doodle dogs lose some years off their life and how they obtain back a full 15 year life expectancy. Yes, Beau is smart and a good observer too. Beau has mastered the Hush Puppy sad eyed look down pat along with the bowing of his head, tuck the tail down and look like he is going to cry when he does something wrong. Beau’s life expectancy goes up and down like a yo-yo. He has stopped playing quality assurance tester of rugs, shoes, mail or whatever he can slink off with in the blink of an eye. Yet when caught chewing my gas bill he eagerly drops it and waits for me to pick it up. Bingo…full life expectancy is restored at that very moment. And so is when he barks to alert us to Peanut NOT sharing a magazine she claims Max gave to her to read.

 So when I hear the words, very rarely I might add, ” I am going to kill that dog!” I then figure out a way to present a good sense of humor into action. When Max breaks free once a week tricking Dave or my son he will be good on a potty walk off leash and then runs 200 mph around the yard and house becoming a black blur having the time of his life, I then go to the back door and yell, ” BYE MAX!”. Whenever I say these words Max runs back to the front door where I wait and open it. Max then proceeds to go into his crate and punishes himself. I then announce to my household how GOOD Max is as he knows when he does wrong and gives himself a timeout whereby my household ends up laughing and letting Max out of his crate 5 minutes later. Little does Max know he keeps a full 15 year life expectancy each and every time he crates himself when he does something not good in the human view of right and wrong. 

 OH, and if you find yourself wanting to kill that dog when your best pair of shoes are eaten, remember it is up to you to teach them right from wrong while allowing them to fully live their life expectancy as a dog. As a child does not raise themselves nor does a dog. Whether a child or a puppy, both will have their quirks, good points, get into mischief due to natural curiosity that has its moments of correction along with a sense of humor applied at all times or should I say whenever possible?

If my mother and father killed me every time they said that when I managed to error in some way without allowing redemption via love, laughter, patience and further guidance, I guess I wouldn’t be writing this article today.

 So, while you ponder how long will my doodle live, ” 10, 12, or 15 years?” I no longer ponder this question anymore. By letting Doodles enter our home, hearts and life, I now plan on our doodles living as long as possible growing older with us daily. Add to that the great stories that can be told at future gatherings, laughter that has been had and yet to come, along with knowing that no one or nothing is infallible except God.

My doodles are going to live forever. As my doodles will always have a place in my heart, memories and pictures to revisit in my mind at any given moment, and love to feel any time I think of them or just have them lying at my feet waiting for me to finish typing this article and play some fetch with them.

P.S. I am glad to say all 3 doodles in my house have been granted lifetime immunity since writing this article and will live a full life expectancy.

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WHY EVEN HAVE A DOG?

What do dogs really do for us? I will agree I was a “NO DOG TILL HELL FREEZES OVER” person for the past 5 years. Come on, dogs stink when wet. Dogs stink when muddy. Dogs stink when they roll in deer poop. Dogs stink after they eat their food. Dogs stink when they fart. Dogs stink if you don’t bathe them periodically. All in all, dogs just plain stink. HOWEVER, most Labradoodles and Goldendoodles do not have doggy odor, thus they really don’t stink except when they have a ear/yeast infection or have rolled in deer poop like Max does if I am not careful when walking him on our 6 acre yard.

Next, dogs jump up on you. They sniff you in areas I won’t mention but most have experienced to-date. They get your clothes wet and/or muddy. Dogs bark at nothing! Dogs want to play when you dead tired, or want to watch a movie. Dogs need walks or they will drive you right up a wall with their undying energy levels. Dogs chew things like eyeglasses, shoes, boots, chair legs, towels or anything you do not want them to chew. Dogs take over your life. They have to be fed certain times, let outside to relieve themselves, they need training, love, hugs, kisses, praise over and over again. Dogs just plain have as many needs as humans, maybe even more? Dogs do not let injuries, stitches, or wounds left alone to heal. Instead they lick, chew, bite them and can cause an infection or further medical attention. Dogs can bite sometimes by mistake while playing by your feet, other times when fearful. Dogs can talk back! Dogs can pee and poop on your rug numerous times no matter how much eliminator products you use. Dogs can cost more money than you can afford when bringing them to the vets. Or more than your kids did at the pediatrician. Good news, you can purchase dog insurance to help recover some medical costs.

Let’s see if I left anything out about how much trouble owning a dog can be for us humans. Dogs can develop weird habits, not come when called, roam neighborhoods, eat things like chicken wings from your kitchen garbage, open screen and storm doors to run free, round off corners on coffee tables, defuzz any stuffed toy in minutes, eat non-edible items at a moments notice, test your patience almost 24/7, make your kids look like saints at times, and in general give you tension headaches for years if you let them or don’t exercise a sense of humor.

So why have a dog at all? Good question! As this is what I used to think, feel and believe in until October 7, 2006. Now I would not go back to life BEFORE Max, Peanut, and Beau. Not for all the tea in china, not for a million dollars! I can honesty say all three of my dogs are work.

It’s plain and simple: everyone’s lives in my house have been upturned and changed indefinitely for sure. But what we have learned, witnessed, felt in our hearts at times, and experienced to date words alone do not describe the full benefits. There are days when a picture whether it is mental, digital and/or photographic in any way, is worth at least a 1000 words. Yet there are times neither a word nor a picture can really portray what one gets in life from a dog, it is something one has to just experience at one point or another in life.

How does one draw the laughter, head tilts, soulful loving eyes just looking deeply into yours? How does one say what the sound of a dog crying in pain looks or feels like? Or when you are sad maybe even crying only to have a dog come and truly comfort you, can anyone put in print the true emotion felt at that moment? Or what is felt when your favorite slippers are shredded with tons of fuzz all over the floor and your dog happily wags it tail, looking proudly at you and drops it at your feet on command. Can anyone describe the mixed emotion of wanting to kill that damn dog one second and then laughing while hugging the same dog the next? Or how about the funny stories down the road you can tell at family gatherings and parties making others have the best laugh they have had in months!

Now let’s turn this around. Having dogs is analogous in certain ways to having children. You learn to laugh, develop patience, better creativity, organizational and analytical skills along with sharpened common sense and problem solving abilities. I haven’t mentioned the word LOVE until now. Can anyone really describe love to its truest meaning, its deepest level, or if writing it for a dictionary exactly how it makes you feel? Can someone really just sum it up carefully and universally into one or two sentences, or is it something we really need to have in our lives daily to totally understand it and like an addict crave it?

Love is not just smiling, feeling happy, being dreamy eyed and idealistic, and the positive list continues onward. Love also consists of tears, fears, worries, frustration, anger, wanting to give up and/or walk away, feeling stressed out and that no one cares, or understands, or helps out or whatever. What really matters is putting the good with the bad, the pretty with the ugly…it is the combinations that are more complex than solving a Rubik’ Cube or channeling quantum physics.

Now what kind of love does a dog possess? A dog teaches something humans have yet to be able to genuinely 100 % do in their own life and that is to love UNCONDTIONALLY. Dogs rarely hold grudges; do not bring up the past in your face.Okay the boot your dog chews daily that is the exception to the rule. Dogs kiss you each and every time no matter how mad you were at them earlier in the day. Dogs greet you eagerly each and every time you enter your home whether you were gone 5 hours or 5 minutes. Dogs just want love and to give love period.

I love how when I have heard of other people’s dogs acting similar to Max when around small children, the elderly, or even someone in pain physically and/or mentally. They calm right down, sit patiently, quietly and almost with a silent inquisitiveness without questions. They act so much differently than usual. These dogs seem to sense the pain, innocence, mental anguish, or that these people are different from others in their home. Dogs are better at sensing differences as well as reading body language than us humans. If we were to watch dogs more often we could even possibly learn more than we try to teach them. Children when small are the same way: through their love and innocence at times they really teach us more than we teach them. “Children learn what they live” is a well known poem however could it possibly overflow into dogs? For me, my answer is yes.

To-date having dogs in my life again has enabled me to think more about my children and how much I should be showing them how deep my love runs for them too. Two of my teenagers still hug and kiss me telling me they love me. The other teenager will again when he is done conquering the world, thinking I am stupid, mean, strict, embarrassing, and out of touch with how things are today. Hopefully, when this one particular teenager becomes an adult he will have the best of what life has to offer: love shared with a companion, also children and pets. Both make you laugh later on and especially when it happens to someone else. For others being able to say “been there, done that” can enable one to reflect a memory, a laugh and move on in life perhaps in a more positive way when you realize this commonality.

Are dogs worth the love, money, time and work involved in the average 10 to 15 year commitment? Sure, but then again what in life isn’t work? If everything were to come easy without some hard work and frustrations at times, would you appreciate and love it as much?

Will you ever have to be up all night with a dog? — Probably. Will you freeze your buns off in winter or wear holes in the soles of your shoes walking them, some will, some won’t. Depends if you have fenced areas in your yard or not.

Will you melt when they kiss you for no reason other than to just want to? Most of us do. Will any of you have at least one stinky ride in a car competing with your dog for fresh air? Most of us have. Or how about talking mushy baby talk when you think no one is within listening distance? I have seen grown men perform this act many a time, as I have seen grown women and children to be included of cuteness acts around a dog.

Will you end up with poop stuck on your dog’s rear end needing assistance of removal? I hope far and few between for anyone’s sake. This is not a cute or joyous feat.

Will you end up having to replace something in your home due to destruction, accident and/or boredom? That is a given. Yet the same dog can also alert and/or save you in times of danger.

Have you ever buried your face in your dog and given the almighty bear hug while whispering the “I love you so much” in your dog’s ear? I know I have numerous times.

Will your yard or houseplants be dug up periodically? Mine have and will again if I turn my back too long. And will you realize like your children and yourself, no one and nothing is perfect in life? If life were to be easy and perfect there would be nothing to look forward to. So will you one day come to realize the same dog that needs care and love can also do the same for us? Or will you pass up the opportunity in life of learning what unconditional love really means?

My home I thought was filled with so much love with my kids and fiancé. My cup was half full and now with 3 doodle dogs my cup is overflowing with love. I have asked so many questions but not for answers, but more for reflection.

And I leave you all with this: Dogs: man’s best friend? Or are they really everyone’s best friend if you allow them to be ? You decide.

“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.” quote by Anatole France

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