Thank you all so much for your help, don't know what I would do without this forum. I am using all the advice and will not give up (yet anyway),
problem I had tonight was paying so much attention on his behaviour that my 6 yr daughter got jealous and upset that I didn't love her anymore.

kids, the pressure!
I have another question, He had his 2nd vaccination on Monday and the vet told me it would be another 10 days till he can go out for walks

will it be a crime if it was earlier, i just think that the walk will not only wear him out but stimulate him too.